Merge with the Best Part of YOU
Open Yourself to Answers
“Gloria, how do you know if something is right? How do you know what you want?”
“I don’t know what I want. I don’t know how to tell what I want.”
“Hmm…what do I want?”
Those are the questions asked this week by a friend and clients.
My Understanding
I understand that…
With our finite limited perceptions, we sometimes base what we want on what we believe is possible.
Sometimes we believe we don’t know what we want because we’re afraid of what will happen if we want it. Will it be too much? Is the cost too high? Am I worthy of having it? What if I’m wrong? Am I capable? What if my soul wants something different for me? What will others think? And on and on…
Sometimes it may seem easier to convince ourselves that everything is okay the way it is, in other words, to give up.
But… if we’re vulnerably honest with ourselves we don’t want to shadow our wants with doubts, and we don’t want to let them go!
We want what we want!
We don’t have to let our ego or human self stop us with stories of - it’s too scary, too big, too risky, or too…. (fill in the blank).
What if instead of trying to figure out what you want, going for what you want, or giving up on what you want, by your lonesome, you chose to merge with the best part of you?
That Part of Us
There’s a part of us who doesn’t believe that something is too big, frightening, time-consuming, or troublesome.
That part of us isn’t intimidated by any of our human judgements.
That part of us that knows us and loves us unconditionally.
The cool thing is - we all have that part.
That part of us is our Higher Self - our true authentic self.
And we can merge with it. We can merge with the BEST of who we are.
We can bypass our human doubts, worries, fears, and shortcomings by merging with that part of us that loves us like no other, wants what we want, and accepts us as the fallible human we are.
What a blessing to know that we all have the gift of merging with our infinitely intelligent, compassionate, all-knowing, best part - our Higher Self.
Merging
When we merge with our Higher Self we feel love and acceptance.
When we feel love and acceptance we naturally vibrate higher, and in that higher vibration, we open ourselves to infinite knowing and possibilities.
We open ourselves to answers.
How Do We Merge with Our Higher Self?
Friend, after years of playing the guessing game, I know the surefire way to know what I want and to get what I want is to come together with my Higher Self.
To feel Connection and go to Higher Self:
Begin with breathing to relax the mind and body. Bring forth the feeling of love, adoration, compassion, or just relief. If you feel those feelings are out of your reach, bring forth a memory that warms your heart.
Become the one-heart breath. This can be done in several ways. You can envision the number 8 (infinity symbol) going from your heart to your Higher Self’s heart about 12 feet above you.
With your intention and attention breathe deeply in and out of your heart region. On your exhale envision or sense your breath going into the heart of your Higher Self’s Presence. Allow the breath to become one continuous breath, between yourself and your Higher Self.
If you like, as you breathe through the infinity symbol you can give your breath a color. Once you feel connected ask, What would my Higher Self do? Or what does my Higher Self want?
Another way to merge with the Higher Self is to think of the Higher Self hugging you. While hugging feel yourself merging into your Higher Self. Relax into oneness.
A simple yet powerful way to merge with your Higher Self is to notice how you feel when you make a decision, or when you’re indecisive. If you feel contracted, basically not good, it’s time to breathe deeply and bring up a loving memory. Once you feel better, ask, What would my Higher Self do? Or what does my Higher Self want?
Once connected you may ask any question to your Higher Self. If you don’t receive an answer immediately, relax. You may want to gently remind yourself that you know the answer will come in the perfect Divine Time.
Note: The answer will come when you feel good and your vibration is high.
You’re Not Alone
Remember:
You’re not alone.
You always have a standing invitation with your Higher Self
Your Higher Self is unfettered by the constraints of your 3-dimensional life
Your interior and exterior life is deeply understood and accepted
The ultimate creative force backing you is your Higher Self
Anything you can do alone pales in comparison to what you can do with your Higher Self.
If you’re feeling like your judgment is cloudy, pause and merge. Your Higher Self knows the answer.
My Questions to My Higher Self
Am I clear about what I want?
Yes.
Okay, am I doing what I know will best serve me to get what I want?
Hmm… in some areas but not in one.
What area?
You’ll enjoy amping up your creativity.
Got it - Thanks.
Then with my breath and intention, I sent love and adoration to my Higher Self.
Inner Joy Compass Prompt:
Nothing brings me more joy than merging with my Higher Self.
Who wouldn’t adore being loved, understood, accepted, heard and helped?
So…are you ready to be loved, understood, accepted, heard, and helped?
Okay then it’s time to merge
Pick one of the merging processes that deeply resonates.
See above:
One heart breath with the infinity symbol
Hugging your Higher Self
Just deep breathing with a feeling of love
Think of a question that you would like some guidance about.
Now ask, What would my Higher Self do? Or what does my Higher Self want?
Listen and abide or trust that the answer will come in perfect Divine Timing.
“When you contact the Higher Self, the source of power within, you tap into a reservoir of infinite power.” Deepak Chopra
May you open yourself to merge with the best part of you - your Higher Self - and receive your truest answers.
Thanks for being here.
I appreciate YOU!
With all my love,
Gloria